I've been married for a long time. So long I don't even want to think about it. My eldest son is 23, so I guess it would be a little over 25 years of pure hell.
From the day we got married there was trouble. My friends saw this before my wife and I got married. She treated me like dirt in front of them a week before our wedding. The best man asked, "Are you sure you want to go through with this?" What am to do? 200 guests from both sides of the family are coming and plans have been made. I thought things would get better, but they progressively got worse. We have three children ranging in age from 18 to 23. They are probably the only positive things that have come out of this marriage.
Why not divorce her? Who can afford to? The minute I win the lottery, she gets half of it and it's over.
I really, really, really, hate her. If she were to be hanging on the edge of a cliff and nobody was looking, I would step on her fingers and grind it, and hold it there until I had my say, then let go. With a big, big smile on my face, no doubt.
Hell, if I get caught and I go to prison, it wouldn't be so bad.
My wife doesn't work. Never had the whole time we were married. I accepted that because I know how important having a mom at home is for the kids. In fact, she was actually good with the kids, so I put up with the verbal abuse. She often put me down in front of the kids. I freaked at first and fought back, but as years went by, I got tired of the fighting. I just stopped. Sex? Yeah, right. You wouldn't sleep with the devil, would you?
I wish my wife would find another man. Sick her on some other poor sap.
Nagging is expected. All husbands get that, but the disrespect I get from her is what really irks me. Yeah, I'm hurt by it and I deal with it quietly. I have my hobbies and I have my job. One day, I'll snap, I guess.
I' so glad I have the opportunity to rant on here.............