My Wife Is Making Me Sick
I have been with my wife for 15 years now. We got married pretty young. We have a 14 yeard old autistic daugher and an 8 year old son.
Around our 10th aniversay we got divorce and a year later we decided to give it another try. On my part mainly for the kids. Today I'm upset and dissapointed at the same things I was 5 years ago. Basically I do pretty much everything.
My wife works and refuses to contribute with the expenses of the home. She does a little grocery every now and then but not sufficient. She doesn't even
pay for her car insurance, I have to do that. She doesn't take care of the kids the way she should specially our daughter. I'm so tired of having to do
everything from doing the laundry to helping the kids with homework every night. The house is always a mess, because she refuses to clean unless I take the lead and she ends up doing very little mainly her closet and her bathroom. she doesn't cook either. The kids eat dinner every day at my parents.
I forgot to mentioned tha the main reason why we got divorce 5 years ago was because she was cheating on me. I left the house then and took my autistic dauther because she couldn't handle her. I leaved in my parents house with my dauther for a year before we gat back together.
Today I find my self feeling the same way I felt 5 years ago. I don't think she is cheating on me now, but you never know.
I know that if we end our relationg ship I will take my dauther, but I'm afraid what will become of my son with her.
We are currently going to marriage counseling, but that is not working out. I need make some changes in my life and stop feeling the way that I feel.