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I Hate My Parents

I born in an asian country where nothing is more important than culture..................i am the oldest child of my parents, i've one one little sister and she's a special child, my parents have lost 2 baby girls (my sisters who died when were only 2 days old). so my parents love me so much..........
but the thing is that they don't understand me...........is asia, beating childs is a normal thing........so they shout at me, slap me, abuse me...............
they love me when they r happy.........but when are angry, even on some one they else, they shout at me and abuse me............not my Mum, but my dad do...............they give me every thing they can effort...........but thats not what i want, i want freedom...............i just want them to understand me, and accept me with what i am.................i hate them trying to control my life.........they don't let me go any where just because girls are not allowed to do anything on their own in asia..........I HATE THE FACT.........i wanna live my life on my own............i like to do things in my own way...............but they just don't understand it.....................
so went to disliking them, i kept talking back..........
i they got fed up............and now they hate me..........not really but atleast they don't like me even a bit
i don't have any problem with that, after all i don't like them either.........
and i i just wanna go away...........but i'm just not old enought for that......but because of all this i can't even focus on my studies.........and this fact can ruin my whole life...........
i wanna flew away to some some Euroupian country, where i would be able to live on my own...........
I hate my parents............and my life................i don't know what should i do in such satuation...............so please tell me.........i really need the answer..................what sould i do now???????????
AsianTeen AsianTeen 16-17 1 Response Feb 8, 2013

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This is just temporary. You have to understand that your parents love you but their lack of education together with their protective ways can come across as controlling. I understand how you feel because I am an Asian girl with the same upbringing. I have been in your shoes. I was depressed and wanted to hurt myself but I'm glad I was more matured and realized it was a stupid idea. Running away from our problems isn't the solution. After I started going to college, slowly my parents started to become more lenient and less controlling. They want to see that you are capable of taking care of yourself before they can let you live your life. As long as you can show them that you are honest, matured and responsible, they will eventually learn to let you be yourself. Stay strong!