My Passive-aggressive Suitemates

Last school year, I suited with a group of girls, and we all got along nicely. Because of bed times, we decided to swap roommates for this current school year, which was fine. Things started to change after the new school year started. The girls would not talk to my roommate or me much and they would often lock us out of the bathroom. Sometimes, after a disagreement, they would write passive-aggressive facebook statuses for the world to see. It really hurt because my roommate and I always wanted to work things out. In the end, a threatening passive-aggressive statement on Facebook caused us to move out.

 

I wish that people would just go directly to the person when they had an issue.

dancer2011 dancer2011
18-21, F
6 Responses Mar 3, 2010

Yes I totally agree with you!

Problem is they lack a back bone, so they never come forth.

I told my sister not to post any pictures of me on facebook. I told her the reasons why. For six months I said, please dont put any pics of me on facebook. As soon as she got upset with me, thats exactly what she did. Spiteful ? passive agressive ?

I told my sister not to post any pictures of me on facebook. I told her the reasons why. For six months I said, please dont put any pics of me on facebook. As soon as she got upset with me, thats exactly what she did. Spiteful ? passive agressive ?

it's so sad and pathetic the way people hide behind facebook to voice their emotions. i feel like i'm one of the few people at my school who still believes in face-to-face contact, especially when there's a problem.<br />
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unfortunately, my current suitemates are behaving more and more like your former ones all the time..

It wasn't great at first, but now it is working out well!

what cowards!<br />
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I hope your new place is working out =)