We Shouldn't Hate Them For This?!!! Wtf

As a recipient of sexual abuse from a professional at 7 yo, I fill with rage indsecribable when I hear such bullshit from pedophiles claiming to have been victims themselves. I feel as if I am being tarred with a brush which has no basis in fact. The only evidence of the "abused abuser" theory is the testimony from convicted offenders. Surely this is their atempt to throw more egg on the faces of people such as myself adding to our humiliation. It is a sda situation when even many "experts" advance the "abused abuser" theory on such dodgy evidence.

I agree it's disgusting! And first of all they should restrict all subscriptions under 18, IMHO

I wonder about this sometimes as well. I wasn't sexually molested as a child but I was physically abused. This didn't make me grow up to be an adult that physically abuses children. I didn't get counseling for what happened to me as a child. And rather than perpetuating the cycle, *any* form of child abuse makes me physically ill (I have 3 children of my own I have never harmed).

It's sick..I agree with you...I hear Alacatraz is vacant, and that there is plenty of protein in the form of rats for these type of people. Great post!

I won't show compasion to people who WON't change because they make a stupid excuse to being the way they are like "we are born this way" type of c r a p... Now go and spam another story!!! F-offf if you wanna support them, you won't have my compassion okay!

Compassion is not a matter of deserving on "their" part but of will toward healing on "yours."



Banning this topic from EP has little chance of doing good. When people vent, some of the energy is bled from their primary suffering and behavior. Maybe not enough to meet your expectations, but a small step is a step.



There has been too much book burning already. Book burners can never get clear of the backflash.

People like that are sick bastards, that need to seek help. Before they can help anyone else they need to help themselves, which they failed to do so. Knowing a guy known as Master Legend he would smack the hell out of and all Pedophiles! It may not had been their fault at first but giving into it does!

what BS! i was desired and diddled with as a child, didn't turn me into a pedo.

the cure for the disease is lead, not tolerance.

@ Lunavica





"Well if they say "they have no excuse because God made them that way" are they really lying? Or just seeking a poor justification to carry on with their crimes?



When these retards come to me and say "but we are born this way, you got to accept us as we are, God made us this way" - then that is surely no words of REMORSE or feelings of feeling SORRY for what they did, if they want SYMPATHY by using these lame and groundless excuses, then they do not want to stop and they DO not want to control their desire for as they say "we were born this way, God made us this way, just deal with it"



I think you hit the nail on the head with this L. And when they come to EP or any other site, they are looking for justification for their actions, a fellow perp to engage a pity party with, or they are looking for more stimulation. They don't even have the sense to be embarrassed. So sad. . .

I cannot tell you how I feel about pedohiles.I would say it here but the comment would be deleted.it is sick and discusting and if I would ever see this type of sick s-it going on they would never find that person again.the one doing the discusting act...

LOL yes I just turned 23 and my brother 21 - I can't even party or talk with him and his friends. I also have a little sister that turns 9 this year... And I am extremely irritated with her and her little friends. I just want people away from me that irritates the crap out of me; children and my brother and his friends irritate me when they are around because they can't stimulate me INTELLECTUALLY... BORING; when I am bored with someone that I have absolutely nothing in common with I get frustrated with them and retreat to my own company or so.. Those kiddie parties of my brother and sister; where everyone makes too much noise and indulge in meaningless endeavours such as the small kids playing and running around screaming etc and my brother and his pals partying till they drop... Yeah you can't really talk to drunk people or people that are constantly high such as the teenager party animal type AND you can also NOT talk with little people like my little sister who don't understand nor have any knowledge of grown up stuff; who won't understand anything you are saying.



But with pedo creeps

They don't want any "emotional bonding; or soul talk" they don't want to TALK with children; they don't want to be INTELLECTUALLY stimulated by children; no they just seek to DESTROY and VIOLATE them physically; they just want a SEXUAL ANIMALISTIC stimulation from these children; to abuse and molest them to satisfy their sick physical urges - therefore what they do is NOT LOVE just barbaric and mindless indulgence in ANIMAL LUST; they do not really care for children when they only USE children for their "bodies" and not their hearts!!!! They see children as nothing but objects that they can abuse and use as they please; since in their minds children are powerless and can't harm them at all; it is only the pedo that has all the power and might to do with whatever as they desire!

As a father of two boys, I'd hunt down any ********* that even thought of harming my kids. It's one thing if the ********* in question was someone who was just a regular person who was legitimately framed for it. But those who know the difference between right and wrong, are the ones who need to be castrated permanently.

lunavica...thanks. Glad to hear someone call these creeps on the carpet for the opportunistic cowards they are.

100% in agreement

@hylie



You said:



They have a desire. It can be controlled. If they say they can't control it they are lying. Pedoes are usually considered to be sex addicts...addictions can be beaten. It's just not easy. And something else is needed: they have to care about other humans. It's not *just* the desire involved, it's compulsivity and lack of empathy that causes them to do what they do. They had to view us as an object to do as they did to us. Which is why you're outraged.



I say:



Well if they say "they have no excuse because God made them that way" are they really lying? Or just seeking a poor justification to carry on with their crimes?



When these retards come to me and say "but we are born this way, you got to accept us as we are, God made us this way" - then that is surely no words of REMORSE or feelings of feeling SORRY for what they did, if they want SYMPATHY by using these lame and groundless excuses, then they do not want to stop and they DO not want to control their desire for children as they say "we were born this way, God made us this way, just deal with it" - now that is when I am enraged because it is total BS and a clear indication if not acknowledgement on these pedo creeps' part that they do have in fact an uncontrollable desire that they DO NOT wish to curb (control).



The moment they give excuses or seek justifications to commit this crime, is the very moment they acknowledge that they refuse to be rehabilitated or controlled, since they enjoy it too much, they are in fact confessing that they are addicted to a destructive desire and have no problem with it whatsoever.

This sickens and outrages me.......I was molested the first time when I was 2yrs old.........What in the hell does a 2yr old baby have to entice such immoral destruction of their innocence.......My life was destroyed before it even began.......I spent my whole life wondering what was so wrong with me.......Thinking I was bad feeling dirty and being told I was useless and worthless......They do only love destruction of innocence......The first time I considered suicide I was 6yrs old.......Tell me how many 6yr olds would consider such a thing????? Ever aspect of my life was ruined at the moment the sick bastard decided to abuse me........Every decision I made was tainted by what he did.....



Twilight- before we send them to another island I say we castrate them first.......I have plenty of other ideas but will not get into it here.......



Ministerium- We all need to stick together to keep these A**holes from hurting other children......You will definitely have my full support.......People who have never been abused will never understand or even care.......

@rose



i can agree with the first part of what you wrote, yes they always target soft targets, those who can't fight back.



"i can totally respect a child mol who gets put on hormones or get a dr to cut off his sex drive. at least they know their desires are bad." - yes but unfortunately you get people who SAY PEDOPHELIA IS NOT A CRIME, so in essence by not realizing it is a crime, simply CANNOT BE REHABILITATED, by saying it is not a crime, means seeking justification to DO WRONG... they cannot be healed also if they say "but we are born this way, we can't change".

sad part is some of these ppl also target ppl with disabilities, ppl who can't run away or can't talk. its very bad.



i can totally respect a child mol who gets put on hormones or get a dr to cut off his sex drive. at least they know their desires are bad.

@veronica



They have blown their own minds, by trying to Fukkk us up, with their abuse, but I tell you life works like a boomerang, your "crimes" always return to you seven fold.. You see you gotta really make them mad, and their true natures are revealed!!!



They think they are justified in their anger to HATE us because they do not believe that their perversions are "evil" after alll they just want to show children LOVE, forgetting all about the MENTAL abuse and traumatic effects that comes with their "showing love to children who are NOT emotionally ready yet to experience and process such actions of sex in a healthy way"... Yeah they do not value innocence, they want to make them grow up too fast and leave the poor children just as mentally fuc-k-ed up as they are!!!!



Is that love? Sending children through a premature mental agony and hell?!!!!!!! Making it to effect their lives in a very negative way for the rest of their lives if some of them do not commit suicide.

Your totally right. Wow i just can't believe there are ppl like that out there. They have blown my mind.

@river



So it was a question? Okay, I can understand you want to know how it "works" too... But let me tell you if there is one thing I know about an "uncontrollable desire" (as these ***** claim they are born this way) that one way or the other it will find an "outing" where they will act upon it, either mentally abusing children or physically which also ends up being mental abuse in the end.... Such an uncontrollable "perversion" will in some way find satisfaction in any way it possibly can!!!! If for purely mental stimulation as well, chatting with children about "grown up" stuff to make them GROW UP TOO FAST etc... Anything to kill the innocence of a child, brainwashing is the MOST EFFECTIVE way for these *****!!!!

@riverwoman



So you say "pedophiles" don't become child molesters?! Huh? Either way they are either mentally abusing children, seriously messing with their minds to get that "power kick" when they can't touch them, they will still try to mentally **** them!!!!! Because that is just the way they are!!!! Child abusers, seeking to corrupt all sorts of innocence even if it is just mental because they are afraid of the law that prohibits touching children physically, but they will still reach out and touch children mentally, because they are "just born that way" to corrupt and destroy innocence - even after the physical scars of abuse are healed, the mental effect of that horror stays forever!!!!

And the most stupid excuse you'll ever hear from these fukkkkkers is that "they can't help it, they were born this way"... Yeah so because their "god" made them this way it gives them permission to molest children ba ha ha I do not find it surprising at all since religion is always issued or twisted just in the "right way" to commit the greatest atrocities!!!!

I have been saying the same thing fir years. They use claims of being abused as a child for self defense AFTER they get caught. I know the damage these creeps cause, I still have nightmares. I was sexually abused starting at the age of five. It DID NOT make me want to do the same that was done to me to others. In fact, it made me more PROTECTIVE of my children and others. If I know a child is being abused or neglected, I REPORT IT, and I give my name, I don't do so anonymously. I wish someone out of all the people that knew that my brother and I were being abused would have helped us. I often ask WHY DIDN'T THEY ???? It angers me to gear these lying pervs claim that they do what they do BECAUSE they too, were abused. I CALL BULLSH*T and I am good at spotting that, I was used to a lot of people lying when I was growing up......These perverts are seriously mistaken if they think they will find any sympathy here. If I had my choice, I would put them all on an island in the middle of the ocean where they would never touch another child EVER. They always have some kind of pathetic excuse, not only to convince others that they are innocent ( RIGHT) but to give themselves permission to do what they do, so they can feel better about doing something that they know is wrong. If they honestly didn't know it was wrong, why do they threaten the kids to keep their mouth shut ??? I wish I was a judge.....

@sss



"There's no excuse to ever think about a child in any sexual manner."



Yes they say they love you, but does "loving someone" mean to fark up their head, or to mess with a child so badly that a child is changed forever after that?! To go out to destroy a soul and fragile mind with lust, is definitely NOT LOVE... So they can't say they love children if they desire them... Desire is destructive when there IS NO REAL LOVE involved... Real love uplifts people it does not seek to break someone down and push them into hell!!!

Yes they take anything they can get, those easy targets, children, small girls and boys, because they FEAR real grown up relationships were there is a real give and take.



These people are spineless, because all they do is TAKE AND TAKE to bleed you dry, they give nothing "good" in return, it is all about THEM.



All the control "one party" can excercise over a helpless victim.



Well those who aim at small girls are scared sh!tless of REAL WOMEN who can talk and fight back... And mature relationships is needed for their "spiritual growth" to true adulthood, I guess that is why they stayed immature still unable to discern between LOVE and LUST.



They only function and feed off Lust, they have no real love, they will die loveless, it serves them right, to die COLD and hollow of heart when the flesh is gone they have nothing left!!!!

When asked all child molester and rapist will tell you that they started with thoughts that led to **** that got to the point it did not feed their need and they needed choose to take what they wanted

Anyone who says they abuse because they were abused it nothing more than a liar and try n to use it as an excuse for what they choose to do.

Yeah definitely... I just cannot believe their arrogance to say they desire children after what has been done to them. It is like they only HATE themselves more, showing no mercy for their "past selves" seeking no "protection" or serving as no shield for other children they now desire to defile... It just looks that they AIN'T looking for any "getting better" or "self-improvement" - jesus won't you desire to be a better person than the pedo who abused you, hating any such thoughts of corrupting "more children" by even entertaining the idea that small children should be subjected to the same suffering as they were?!!! Sick man!!!!

AMEN!!!!!! I could not have said it better myself.......They are all sick bastards.......