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I Hate Sex

Something More....

By: stevenpfeiffer
Written on November 11th, 2010
I used to crave sex when I was younger, it was all I could think about (yeah, I have heard all the stereotypes, so save it). After having sex, I feel empty and disgust. I know it sounds weird, but I desire something more. I find it more satisfying having an intellectual conversation with someone. I hate it when people at work (even other women) whistle out or say sexual inuendos. Those kind of things devalue a person. Let me know how you feel about where I am coming from. Maybe I am the only one that has these types of feelings on the subject....
By: stevenpfeiffer
Age: 26-30 , Male
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6 responses
  • SparklyRain
    SparklyRain

    It sounds like you are craving intimacy more now,where you're having sex with someone you're in love with and not just sex?

    Mar 15
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  • ilovearainynight
    ilovearainynight

    well, Machee, I feel sorry for my husband too,and I would totally be fine with him having an affair.

    I guess you missed the part where I said I wasn't always like this.

    For the first 3 years sex was great. but it gradually went downhill after that.

    It's only been revolting for the past 4 years.

    I tried talking to him about cutting the frequency of sex down to 4 or 5 times a month but he threw a fit, punching a hole in the wall, yelling and slammming doors.

    no, I'm not going to go there again. no point. he doesn't care, and that only

    turns me off more.

    Jul 6, 2012
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  • ilovearainynight
    ilovearainynight

    Yes, I totally agree. There was a time I wanted it, but after being married only 3 yrs, I started feeling like "oh no, not again" every time my husband wanted to get frisky. Well the years have went by, and my sexual desire just went out the window from there, until now... I just hate it. I loathe it, I dread it. I find it absolutely revolting. I've been giving it up at least once a week for 23 years now and I just crave the day when I won't have to do it anymore. It's a necessary thing for having children, (which are an absolute delight for me) but when you're done having children, you should never have to do it again.

    Jan 24, 2012
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    • Machee
      Machee

      @ilovearainynight does your husband know how you feel? I feel sorry for him. He married someone that thinks making love to him is revolting... You should let him have affairs. Maybe he posts hear too in I am in a sexless marriage or I am leaving a sexless marriage. It's really sad how people who have sexual hang ups fool people into marrying them and then reveal their true self not long after thy get married. That is selfish why not find an impotent man or one with a low sex drive to marry so you can enjoy celibacy together? As for me I long to find a new special someone that will love me for me. Have that great mental connection that Steve was talking about. Make beautiful love and and enjoy life. Making love makes me feel like my husband wants me. Makes me feel like a woman, more than a skirt and heals. Releases my stress and tension. Reconnects us after an argument. Watching his face and knowing I made him feel like no one else could. I don't want pity sex that is like a chore that's why I'm leaving my hubby. He fooled me into being a celibat roommate. Fucc that.

      Jun 12, 2012
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  • SexlessGYPSY333
    SexlessGYPSY333

    Your not I feel the exact same way.

    Oct 26, 2011
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  • bcukface
    bcukface

    i agree as well but maybe the kind of sex that is stereotyped in society so much just isnt for you. try something new.mix it up a little

    Nov 17, 2010
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