Without Sex, There Would Be No Rape.

With no sex, there would be no rape. Which happens to someone every second, proven by statistics. It brings pleasure to only a few people. The rest suffer, endure it, or do it out of social pressure. Or rape. Or fear, or compulsion. Or even marriage...

“Marriage is for women the commonest mode of livelihood, and the total amount of undesired sex endured by women is probably greater in marriage than in prostitution.”  Bertrand Russell quotes

  Facts About Sexual Assault
  • 1 out of 4 women is sexually assaulted at some point in her life.
  • 1 out of 6 men is sexually assaulted at some point in his life.
  • Every 15 seconds a woman is beaten by her husband or boyfriend. (FBI Uniform Crime Report, 1991)
  • 2-4 million women are abused every year. (American Medical Association)
  • 95-98% of victims of domestic violence are women. (Bureau of Statistics)
  • Approximately 25% of all women in the U.S. will be abused by current or former partners some time during their lives. (American Medical Association)
  • 82.8% of sexual assaults occur before the victim reaches the age of 25.
  • 78% of sexual assault victims were assaulted by someone they knew.
  • Up to 57% of rapes happened on a date.
  • Over 66% of sexual assault victims reported NO visible physical injuries.
  • Over 50% of victims and 70% of assailants had used drugs or alcohol prior to the assault..
  • Fewer than 20% of crimes of sexual violence are reported to the police.
  • Approximately 2% of acquaintance rapes are reported to the police.
  • Only 2% of reported sexual assaults have been determined to be false reports.
  • 1 in 8 college women is the victim of rape during her college years. 1 in 4 is the victim of attempted rape.
  • 95% of these rape victims did not report the rape to officials.
  • 25% percent of women were raped and/or physically assaulted by a current or former spouse, partner or date during their lifetime.
  • 84% of the women knew the men who raped them; 57% were on dates.
Among animals, sex is very often painful (barbed penises on male cats, anyone?) and very often involves rape (like male scorpions with rape devices and dogs which lock inside the female to keep her from running away or escaping) or **********, ******, and even prostitution. Without sex, would you have any of these problems, among animals or humans? Is there any other crime that is frequently occurring, intimate, and emotionally damaging at the same time? No. And there is no serious crime as frequent as rape. 

What more can I say?

Note: the words that were blocked out were pedoph!lia and !ncest.
MilkMoon MilkMoon
18-21, F
7 Responses Oct 1, 2011

those asshats are getting way out of control.

Right and you would also have no population...

yuck...I feel sorry for anyone who thinks they have to have sex or who is forced to against their will, but to think that "it brings pleasure to only a few people" and that most women don't really enjoy sex, just yuck!

Without sex there wouldn't be anything alive on the planet either. I can only assume you are either a virgin or were sexually abused, maybe both. You are young and may end up changing your view on this. Sex can be the most horrific experience ever if it's a bad situation. It can also be the best thing to ever happen to you. It all depends. I hope you have a good situation come about which makes you find positive interest in sex.

For most of us , sex is a wonderful , normal part of life.
In many cultures where sex is always available and encouraged , there is little crime and most people live happily . ( and i'm not talking about anything illegal or underage.).

It depends on how you look at it.
Sex is "negative" aka "yin" energy.
The fact that not all men are sex maniacs proves it all.
Only people with negative mindset do negative things, example - rapist, s*uts, cheaters, abusers and trashy people.
It is all in the mind.
Fortunately my man is a positive man.

You are ignorant in many ways.
There are women who rape when women are supposed to be less or NOT horny?
It is all in the mind, i am sure you are another person suffering from low self esteem and other negative emotions to think this way.
Sex is not something that is needed to make anyone happy.
It is like a drug, something you use to numb yourself or actually "think" it can give you happiness and bring you away from your own personal darkness, but no matter how much you have, you still suffer and are in pain in the end.
Happiness starts from whether you have the ability to be able to be "positive" in the first place.
It comes from within, only by being thinking positive about yourself rather than "using sex or drugs as a validity".

You seem very negative for someone who is happy with a " positive man "?

But you can`t say i am "negative" when i haven`t done much activities that are "negative".
You are an example of how your own personal mindset can be so strong that you are trapped in your own repetitive habits and blind you from the whole reality.

Are you saying that my mindset is so strong that i am trapped in my repetitive habits and blind to reality ???

Maybe.But you know some reality now.Or other "part" of the world.

what reality do know?
and what am i actually trapped in ?

How a person think of sex is all in the mind has nothing to do with gender.
Sex is a negative notion, usually it is negative emotions/mindset within the self, that leads one to indulge in such behaviour or activity and it has nothing to do with gender.
Eg: 1 - Not all guys are desperate for sex and screw everything he sees.
2 - There are girls who are s*uts.
Shows that how a person behave sexually has nothing to do with "guys having more hormones and girls having less or none stereotype".
Probaby, you have to ask yourself why sex is so important to you when the "positive emotion/mindset" people reject sex because they don`t want to indulge in behaviour that is negative.
This can help you discover more about what is within yourself and why you behave the way that you do.

Sex is usually all in the mind , but you enjoy it with your body.
Sex is good for the body....it floods you with good hormones that make you happy. It's good for your physical and mental health.
I love sex with my husband , he loves it with me. There is nothing negative about it.
We are not trapped and it has nothing to do with gender.
The whole idea that without sex we wouldn't have sex crimes is like saying...if we didn't have arms , there would be no gun crimes.
If we didn,t have livers , there would be no liver cancer....
Sex is essential to life , and we cannot stop the world being full of arseholes .
I know very well who i am , and i behave very well.
The people who misuse sex have the problem, the problem is not sex.

I agree that people who misuse sex have the problem, but you just seem like one to me.
And for the liver analogy, i wonder how low is your iq, not everybody have liver cancer!
And i don`t commit gun crimes even though i have arms.
Seriously, you do suffer from some mental retardation.

Exactly..........i must be retarded, along with the rest of the human population that see sex as a healthy activity.
NO...not everyone with a liver will have liver cancer.
Not everyone with arms will commit gun crimes.
And not everyone with a p**** or v***** will misuse sex!
Just because you don't like it , doesn't mean the rest of us are negative, evil people.
This is what it sounds like YOU are saying...
I am with a man who is not very sexual.
I am bitter because of this, so i will tell myself that sex is a negative activity and go so far as to tell those that are having healthy sex lives, that they are emotionally unstable. You say this to rationalise the miserable life you are living.How did i come up with this .....your posts told me so.
I am not the one with the problem !!

Yes ........I am right.
YOU are engaged to your brother ( not blood , but your parents intended for this to happen ) and you say he is asexual...........
I must apologise from all of us, who have been seeing psychologists over the years, to try to improve the problems in our relationships. We have been taking up all the appointments that you needed.

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No I completely agree with you

sex is the route of all evil

I can't tell over the internet so I have to ask, are you being sarcastic?