It Wrecked Eveything

it wrecked my reputaion, distroyed my chances of being friends with people, like this one time at a party i did a few naughty things with this guy then he told me it was a one nighter so there was no more talking, no being friends anything, i liked this guy for a while too, i really thought he was a good guy but yeah i could never be friends with him. and people call me a ****, its not like he ws a random i did have feelings for him so its not bad or anything right?

fallenchild fallenchild 16-17, M 4 Responses Aug 29, 2008

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sorry, what really happened?

i know how you feel. The first guy who I trusted did this to me. I feel for you.

I'm sorry you're going through this. That guy sounds like a douche bag. I had the same problem for a while... I would sleep with just about anyone to get affection. I was a cheater (not proud of it.) I just always craved more and more affection. And the next thing I know, word got out and suddenly my best friends were calling me a ****. I actually had to move OUT OF THE STATE to get away from all of the bullshit. I'm glad I'm past that now... funny thing is... I hate sex now.

No, it's not bad, and you are young, and, if it bothers you, don't be so AVAILABLE if you know what i mean. Be more discriminating....You don't have to sleep with everyone. Accept yourself first, then others will follow. How did everyone know anyway? unless the guys you were with had big mouths. <br />
Start all over, as i suggested to you before, drop them all; they only cause you pain anyway, and and they sound all so shallow (from your other story too). Oh, and i don't have to tell you to never let your guard down and ALWAYS use protection? Your motto for life should be TRUST NO ONE. (re: ALWAYS use protection)