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I Hate That You're Not the Person I Thought You Were

Once Again...

By: Sudbury
Written on September 2nd, 2010
By: Sudbury
Age: 46-50 , Male
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  • sciencedude

    OK, I just had to delete my post due to a typographical error. I was saying that you should not be taken by a woman's beauty. Looks aren't all that important. Well, they should actually be irrelevant. The person "inside" is what counts. To tell you the truth, I'm more likely to find an unattractive girl to be a good sight because based on experience, I've noticed that people who are "physically attractive" (as defined by the mainstream) tend to be mean. Beauty is really more psychological than anything. It depends on how you define it. Naturally, the human brain defines beauty based on mathematical "order" due to the second law of thermodynamics which governs how life works. More order means that less energy is needed to accurately model something mathematically. This is why we find symmetrical flowers or standing forests to be more beautiful than disordered bushes or non-smooth objects. However, once we realize that a person's personality matters to us most and what great times we are able to have with a person, we define a person's beauty by their behavior. I've actually tried this before. I once looked at a girl who was nice. I found her look to be utterly beautiful. Then for a few days, I began imagining what she would be like if she acted like a complete jerk. When I looked at her picture again, I was very very repulsed by the sight of it. At least that's how it works for me. I believe that if everybody adopted similar ways of choosing people, we would all be very happy.

    Sep 28, 2010
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