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People Online Or Offline?!?!

By: AngelBornInHell
Written on February 8th, 2013
I hate hate hate hate!! it when on fb or any other social media site where u can chat with someone. It says someone is online so when u message them they dont answer..then after a while they message u back and r like oh sorry i didnt get ur message i was doing something else.. -_- i really wanna tell them well..if ur not online THEN LOG OFF!!!!! I hate it cuz if they r not around i feel like they r avoiding me or ignoring me but the reality is that they r not even there. So u got me here thinking the worst and getting a little upset cuz i get all these feelings.When im online it means im online it means im available to chat, if im offline or 'away' means im offline and away, it means im no there so dont message me or ull be waiting for my reply.
So please people if ur not online log off. This annoys me to the core.
By: AngelBornInHell
Age: 18-21 , Female
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  • steed66
    steed66

    I think sometimes when you have a house errands kids pets husbands wives, if you logged out every time you was just doing something, you would spend all your time logging in and out, if people are your friends they should have some insight into how busy/hectic your life might be.
    If they are your friends why would you just assume that they are avoiding you, people have busy lives thats the truth.

    Feb 8
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    • AngelBornInHell
      AngelBornInHell

      true true, but someone can just stay online and exit out the page, thats what i do or stay online just log off on the chat, or put there status away. yea maybe i get it for busy wifes and stuff but others?

      Feb 8
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    • steed66
      steed66

      Just explain to your friends that it's one of those things that gets you annoyed, maybe they don't know you feel so strongly about it. If its something that doesn't bother them, its likely that they think it wouldn't bother anyone

      Feb 8
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    • AngelBornInHell
      AngelBornInHell

      yea maybe i should but it dont wanna be pushy about it, i know i know maybe i shouldnt be complaining if not going to do anything about it, its just something i wanted to let out..

      Feb 8
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    • steed66
      steed66

      Well just try to explain it in a light hearted way. I don't think your friends want to deliberately annoy you. Say something like, could you please do me a favour when you are busy and you are not chatting can you please let me know.
      Good luck, hope you get it sorted, hope I've helped.

      Feb 9
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  • Lonely359
    Lonely359

    Sounds like you need to not take things so personally.

    Feb 8
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    • AngelBornInHell
      AngelBornInHell

      maybe. but when it happens with the same person? constantly?

      Feb 8
      1 like