Guys Or Girls

seriously, why do people feel the tendency to be in a relationship when they have more urge to cheat? if you wanna cheat always, most of the time and the biggest part in your life is to cheat, don't involve yourself in a relationship cause you are gonna hurt your partner. just be single and available to anyone you just met or like or whatever. honestly, i think it's just horrible, you cheat on your husband/wife with someone else, then you come back to your partner's arms as if nothing happened. it's pure lust, nothing else. mind you though, the one who cheats with you will cheat on you.
LovelessAdvocate LovelessAdvocate
22-25, F
6 Responses Jul 22, 2010

well yeah... i mean ur still married right.... if you know that he's been having affairs behind your back, gotta leave the man hey.... you don't have to be trapped actually. i mean you gotta live your life and cannot make this man constantly bringing u down. one day once u get real sick of his affairs, really u would just pack up your things and leave, even if u think now that you're somewhat stuck.... but there's always a limit to everything.... it's not wrong neither it is right if u have an affair of your own... i hope u dont have those affairs just to get back at him... i'm thinking more like if u found someone whom u could love or trust not only for now but for the rest of your life, i say hey go ahead. oh well anyway.....

I understand, trust me I do. It does suck, and turns into a rotten cycle that puts everyone around them in the middle of it. Just curious..what do you think about being in a marriage and you know your husband has had many affairs, but you are trapped in the marriage for certain reasons. As you feel unloved and degraded, do you think its wrong to have a affair of your own at one point?~~

I understand, trust me I do. It does suck, and turns into a rotten cycle that puts everyone around them in the middle of it. Just curious..what do you think about being in a marriage and you know your husband has had many affairs, but you are trapped in the marriage for certain reasons. As you feel unloved and degraded, do you think its wrong to have a affair of your own at one point?~~

I understand, trust me I do. It does suck, and turns into a rotten cycle that puts everyone around them in the middle of it. Just curious..what do you think about being in a marriage and you know your husband has had many affairs, but you are trapped in the marriage for certain reasons. As you feel unloved and degraded, do you think its wrong to have a affair of your own at one point?~~

oooh, sorry.... i forgotten about those gray areas. what i meant was those who cheats without thinking. u know, like they don't consider their partner's feelings anymore.... that's very sad u know. those who are abused and already at the edge of breaking up... those aren't cheating. it's just moving on and finding someone who can give them the love they wanted. why think that if it's so bad and your partner aren't acknowledging u anymore is called cheating.... it's not. i'm sorry if u mistook me.... i do understand these things u see.... i'm thinking tiger woods, edward something idk, leann rimes? i meant real cheaters.... not victim of recked homes....

Perhaps your right but there are so many la<x>yers to this..each and all of us come from so many different <br />
situations. Abuse, custody battles, recked homes where there is no love,,ect..I get what you are saying<br />
because it hurts when it happens to you, but we all have to step back and look further into this, its not so black and white..there are so many gray areas.