ADDICTED to ****

My husband is addicted to ****, he has over 30 dvds and sneaks it on cable.He got the cable bill to over a thousand dollers.

I caught him watching it so many times,he turns everything around and treats me like crap.

I found books and magazines in his car.

As soon as i get a job,he is gone. He makes me feel worthless.

Luckie Luckie
41-45, F
2 Responses Feb 10, 2007

I have those feelings many days. My husband and I talk openly about his addiction. That's what it is...an addiction. 30 DVDs is nothing. I hope one day we can get down to that. My husband has several hard drives, dvd's, magazines, and is always downloading more. It makes me feel terrible, and he knows it. He hates that he wants it so much. We talk about it and he has deleted a lot for me and I think it is getting better. Try to talk to him about it. Tell him how it hurts you. You need to also understand that it is his problem. I don't agree with watching some yourself. I know I have no interest in that and I would never be so childish as to fight fire with fire. It doesn't work. Be better than that. I find that being a part for a week helps us put things into perspective.

i know exactly what you are going through really i do leave him thats why i did;)and i feel so much better