...But that's my family, they just assume that because they want to keep things one sided in their relationship with me that I will automatically know everything that is going on with family events and drama. Geez, I even had to be told that one of my grandpa's died over the phone, and no one bothered to let me know when the funeral was so I did not even attend that. Two of my cousins get married, I am vaguely told of their plans much, much later, only to realize that they already had the wedding, and guess what? I'm not invited, because I don't *** kiss the family like they do. Thanks a lot, ********.