I Know It'S Stupid

I know what you mean, but there's nothing we can do now. Everyone says it on reflex :(

is only words and anyway i dont think myself as gay i am lesbian and i will not be made part of community defined as 'gay' any more than 'woman' or 'young' or 'clever'. I am person and that person has all these things, sure, but lot more as well. I think i have more in common with heterosexual man than with gay man - at least we both find women attractive! So i dont want to be pushed into this ghetto community cos is easier for others to deal with