But Only Because Of You
I've never had a problem with the exes of people I'm dating until now. My girlfriend's more or less ex girlfriend is just a wretched person. She had my girlfriend completely brainwashed while they were more or less together-well technically they never were officially together, the ex never had any interest in getting with my girlfriend until my girlfriend was MY GIRLFRIEND.
She realized she didn't have complete control over my girl anymore, so then she started playing mind games and telling my girlfriend all of these things to confuse her.
However, it's not the crazy ex that makes this so hard....it's my girl.
Why won't you get rid of texts from her that talk about all of your old fights or sexcapades. The fact that you won't get rid of them, just shows that you're still holding on to her regardless of what you say. You still get mad about the little things she does. I feel like you would much rather keep the waters calm with her, even if it means rocking the boat with me. I wish you actually cared about how uncomfortable this girl makes me, I wish that you would WANT to delete her texts or her from her life. Yeah, I wish you would do that for me, but mostly, I wish that you would do it because you want to do it.
How can someone who treats you so badly, still have such a hold over you?
I've avoided posting this for so long, cause I have some fear that you'll find my account on this site and read this. But I finally realized that it won't change anything if you read it, because you know how your ex makes me feel. And the fact that you can't do something simple like delete her old text messages about her waiting in the dark (just how she likes it) in a bathtub for you....makes me worry
You would do anything for her, but you wouldn't do half of that for me. You told me once that she could've asked you to play in garbage and you would've gone with her. Hell, I ask you to come visit me when i'm sick and you probably won't come over today. It sucks, because I expect that. I should expect my girlfriend to see me, but instead, I just assume that you'll stay home on your couch doing nothing.
I'm sure that anyone who reads this will be like "oh my god, get out of this relationship", but keep in mind, this is only one piece of my relationship, and I haven't posted about all of the good pieces yet.
But I just had to get this out.