It'S Big, It'S Bad

I say things that come directly to my mind. There is no filter for what I say, which is why I say it. I could blame it on my lack of social skills. I can be around hundreds of people who call me their friend and not say a single word to them. When I do talk, I put my foot in my mouth constantly.

Because of this, I tend not to talk much. Half of the stuff I have in my head, I think..when it comes out on to EP it's like it constantly gets in trouble. It constantly makes people hate me for it. I wish I could stop, I wish I could learn how to control it because it only hurts me in the end. I wish there where classes on how to control these things.
Sassberry Sassberry
26-30
3 Responses Jun 19, 2013

Lol. I like you. Wouldn't be your friend but I like you lol jk jk

Okay, good for you I guess.

A little humor goes a long way. Lighten up, life is too short :) smiles

I wasn't saying anything bad. It doesn't matter to me if you want to be friends or not, I just didn't know what to say.

In all seriousness, we are all effed up in one way or the other. You seem pretty sane as opposed to A LOT of people on EP. I say, go on and be yourself. Those who care, will stand by you and all of your quirkiness. If you want to say something, say it. Girl power !! :)

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Well my friend we both have the same problem I to have a automatic mouth at times but I can tell you that you mellow with age I don't do it as much as I use to when I was 18 to 28 I was so bad that I was in trouble all the time it cost me jobs and relationships and even got me thrown in jail and discharged from the navy for cronic insubordination .
But thease days I have lost most of the harshness and am more happy , I think it has somthing to do with the pressure of being trans and putting up with rejection and bullying we indure. Jeanna

Hmm..well that's a first! Ughm, I think the key to controlling your mouth is to practice meditation and restraining, SERIOUSLY, I struggled with Big Mouth Syndrome for years because I always talked back to my mom! I mean my mouth was FILTHY!! But I turned 18 and realized that I could get kicked out then I some how managed to straighten up my act. Just try to laugh at it..but for beginners, I recommend buying a good pair of earphones to drown others out so you wont be provoked in the first place or walk away.

I know how the dirty mouth is, I swear every two ******* seconds ( I'm just kidding XD )

Thank you for commenting, it really helps :)

no problem