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Rather Large Nose

Well were to begin :) I have a large nose. I dont think Ive always had one when I was younger I was really small my skelleton was younger than my body. So I was short, I remember I loved basket ball but I never made the team. Also I should mention started school early because I was "bright". I cried alot during my childhood and every X-mas I wrote to santa wishing Id grow a couple inches. Eventually my parents took me to the doctors and they started me on growth hormones. After a couple years I was all of a sudden 6ft tall . But b/c of the growth hormone my nose had grown a bit too. Obviously being a teen I started obsessing about it and having really low self-esteem all my life didnt really make things better. I always thought I wasent getting any girls because of my nose.  I never thought about the fact that I was shy and hated myself had anything to do with it. Ironically in all my life Ive only heard that I have a large nose like 1-2 times (and one time a friend said hey xxx he kinda has a similair nose to you when we were watching a movie/ the character in the film kinda had a portruding nose) needles to say these 2 times felt like being hit by a bus. Even though in retrospect if when think about it if my nose was as large as I imagined it to be then I guess people would mention it more. Anyway I started to frantically look up plastic surgeons and before and after pictures of rhinoplastys. I spent days infront of the mirror just staring at my nose from different angles and distances. I realized two things my nose only looked "big" from a certain side angle and the more I kept looking at it the bigger it kept getting. Now there must be some sort of a happy ending to this story. I did two things. Firstly I remembered the little short skinny kid who never made the team and spent his days crying and praying to be taller. Secondly I realized that my nose isnt small but it isnt big either it is a masculine nose. I still look young so In a couple years when I get older and my face matures Itll suit me even better. It kinda reminds me of Ralph Fiennes nose who btw I think is very handsome. Now if you are considiring surgery noone apart from you can tell you if it is the right or wrong choice. I just know this one thing If you are a young man and like me have a large head and a large nose. Then dont undergo plastic surgery. I think alot of older people will tell you that your face will grow and eventually itll grow into your nose. Now if you have had surgery you will look wierd. Having said that if you have a extremly large nose or a extremly small one (im talking about almost non existient) and cant stand it then sure do what you think will make you feel good. Just remember not even a nose job will make you feel better about yourself. Personally Ive come a long way but I still have days were I feel like dying and its just stupid it really makes me angry to see what has become of me. Especially considering that I probably have the most symmetric face Ive ever seen, I have big eyes and high cheek bones thick eye lashes. Im a handsome man I just cant accept it. So whats the point of all of this? Well just be thankful for what you have. Because its not worth going down a road which is so hard to come back from just because of that hump or drooping tip or the way your profile looks. Just close your eyes and try to imagine what your friends profiles look like. If you succeed in doing this Ill owe you something :P

Jonte211 Jonte211 19-21, M 7 Responses Nov 13, 2007

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Well said!

The most attractive thing that someone can have is confidence. Also, everyone has a preference. I happen to be attracted to men with large noses. I'm married now, but I wouldn't have dated a man solely based on his nose.

It does upset me when men with fabulous noses have rhinoplasty. I hate it when everyone looks the same -all the models on a runway, in a magazine or on the big screen.

It's the unique facets of your being and your personality that make you who you are and make you interesting. Personally, I love Adrian Brody's nose and Alan Rickman's nose. So if you've got a big nose that you dislike because it doesn't seem to fit your face or it is hooked and you think it looks like a beak, trust me, there is a woman out there who will find it very fetching.

Start reading the posts from the men here. There are plenty of men who love big noses, including me. I think they are sexy. Does that make me weird? No it doesn't! Not everyone needs to look the same.

I have a big crooked nose, and i love it. Girls don't care about what your nose looks like, its the total package they look for, if you spend less time thinking about your nose, and more time working on your fitness, intellegence, and personality. I promise you girls will notice you. I'm 19 and i drive a 1997 subaru outback thats similar to the ugliest car you've ever seen. And i spend a lot of time around really beautiful girls who are into me. Why? because im not embarassed by any of it. Big nose, beat up ride, lives with parents. You wouldn't look like you if you changed your nose. And thats what girls really want anyways. You!

dude, your story looked a lot similar to mine one, like drooling long hours searching rhinoplasty, looking at nose from different angles etc. But one thing, my problem is that, my nose looks a lot like.. well its hard for me to say, like a parrot nose. Its big, its round at the tip, I just don't know how to survive with it.

dude, your story looked a lot similar to mine one, like drooling long hours searching rhinoplasty, looking at nose from different angles etc. But one thing, my problem is that, my nose looks a lot like.. well its hard for me to say, like a parrot nose. Its big, its round at the tip, I just don't know how to survive with it.

im female and i have a masculine nose. i dont want a ******* masculine nose. surgery it is for me. in the nose business, guys and chicks differ in my opinion.

If you look at a lot of great people in history or of today, you will see that an awful lof of them have large noses. I remember being told that if you have a large nose then you will go far in life. So don't despair, you re among the Greats!