There's a Difference Between "Being In Love" and "Loving So"

I'm serious about that. In a nice german movie it was explained like "loving someone" is chronic. And "being in love" is like ... only happening now. It's not like I don't love my boyfriend. I think I love him. But I'm not in love with him. He doesn't give me butterflies. I just feel those "old bored couple"-feelings towards him although we've been not been together for more than some weeks. And this other man ... I don't love him, but I'm extremely in love with him, like crazy. He gives me the butterflies my boyfriend should give me. I adore him more than anyone. But I can't have him...

GothGrrrl GothGrrrl
18-21, F
3 Responses Dec 8, 2007

where'd ya post it? would love to read it cause with me the situation is getting worse and worse...

I know the feeling way to well.I am deeply in love with one of my ex instead of the guy I am with.I have decided to write a story about it.....Read in the future.

I felt that before. And i felt so guilty thinking i was emotionally promiscuious. Later on in life i realized the difference of loving someone and being in love. i paid a price for this lesson but i'm glad i know now.