My Boyfriend Left For Bootcamp Yesterday

my boyfriend left last night for bootcamp i am completely lost and depressed i miss him so much we have been together for 2 years now and never been apart for more than 3 weeks, i am seriously so lost and don't know what to do. he called me last night when he arrived and told me he could make another phone call in 2 weeks and write to me. for those of you who had been through the bootcamp process where your boyfriends/husbands able to call you?
leandramarie7 leandramarie7
4 Responses May 4, 2012

I am with you. I am so lost without my boyfriend. I havent went a day without talking to him. Last time I talked to him was a week ago and its driving me insane. Hang in there, I'm here to talk to you, if you ever need someone to talk to. :)

my man left last night. it is the worst feeling i have ever expirenced. watching him tear up as i drove away nearly killed me. I miss him so much. I hope I can get a phone call too. Have you heard anything since?

I never received any calls. I know his parents received one for when he got there and another for travel arrangements. I honestly wouldn't expect to receive any phone calls that way if you don't, you won't be disappointed. Stay strong; he would want you to! Write letters as often as you can cause he will cherish those. Send a few pictures cause those will make him smile. Be positive because that helps a lot and be patient! (: It will go by faster than you think. The first week may drag on and on, but you'll make it! You'll get your first letter about 2 weeks after him being there. You should receive his address about a week and a half after him arriving. Just remember he loves and misses you like crazy and is always thinking about you! (: I can promise you that! If you have any questions or anything, feel free to message me! Just remember what you are waiting for. Seeing him after those 3 months is an amazing feeling!!

Hi, my boyfriend left for bootcamp in March. So far he has earned only one phone call and his sergeants made him call his dad. They told him he couldn't call me. I don't know if it's different depending on where they go to bootcamp, but Devon went to San Diego and that's how the phone call thing works there I guess. <br />
I know how you feel about the feeling lost and depressed. Write him as much as possible, and try to keep busy! It will get easier, trust me. I've reached the halfway point for Devon coming home and although I get depressed a lot, it's not nearly as bad as it was. Save every single letter you will receive from him for those moments because they will cheer you up. If you ever want to talk to someone, feel free to message me.<br />