I have a feeling that my relationship with my boyfriend is coming to an end. :(

He seems very distant from me. I have not seen or really talked with him in a week. When I text him, I barely get a response, sometimes I don't even get one. Unsure what is going on with him, which makes me worried.

I have noticed in the last few months that he has been very depressed and drinking a lot (pretty much everyday). I know he is not in a healthy state right now. Which is maybe why he is pushing me away......but then again who knows.

Hopefully I get to see or hear from him soon....
nicolem84 nicolem84
31-35, F
1 Response Aug 19, 2014

:) be there when he needs you to, but for now just assume you're free.

Thanks! :) That's how I'm taking it right now. I'm focusing on myself and when he wants to talk or hang out I don't drop everything to be by his side. I feel like I'm being rude to him, but I have it to do it for myself. I still love him, but I have to love myself more.