All My Friends Think He's Whipped But We're Not So Sure..

My fiance is whipped, apparently. I do ask him to get me food or water or whatever when we're cuddling and he gets it for me. I feel like it's because we have a long distance relationship so when we do see each other, he treats me like a princess. When we're together for longer than 2 nights, I will lay off the requests and start doing things myself because I don't want him to think I'm demanding. My friends think he's whipped because, when I make the plans, I kind of tell him how it's going to be and he goes along with it. But if I leave the plans up to him, he doesn't make any. Which is cool sometimes, but not all the time. So why not go along with my awesome plans? Apparently, going along with plans means that he's whipped...? I don't get my friends rational. My fiance is whipped, but it's just a phase that we will definitely grow out of once we're married and living together =)