I Feel So Worthless :((

i have been with my patner for 6 years and i hate what he does mostly because it makes me feel worthless i have expressed my feelings to him and he keeps doing it, i love him with all my heart but i really dont no if i can carry on with him if he is willing to hurt my feelings like this i dont no if there is anyone else out there that feels like this im sure there is??? i need some advice
diamond2727 diamond2727
26-30
5 Responses Jul 28, 2010

Maybe you can help by finding out what he desires most. Make a movie of yourself and give it to him. That would be kind of hot!

ok i made these comment so hopefully id feel better not worse thanks

Perhaps it fulfills a desire in his life that you do not. I don't know I'm not in his head.

ok i can understand what ur saying and i have also gave up alot for him and no i certainly wouldnt ask him 2 stop eating peanut butter but this is so much on so many different levels soooo different he doesnt have sex with me he would rather watch tht crap so yes if he loved me it should be that easy

This is interesting on several levels, but here is my question. Why would you expect him to change because of your feelings? I mean it in a general way of course. If we changed the subject around a little and say, for instance, that you thought peanut butter was gross and you couldn't even look at it or smell it. Would you expect him to never eat peanut butter ever again, even if he really liked to eat it? <br />
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What if he told you that watching TV at all was so unappealing to him, you get so involved with your dramas or cop shows or reality TV or whatever and it makes him feel worthless. Would you give up watching TV for him? <br />
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I guess i ask these questions because I really would like to know if you were asked to make a change and stop doing something that you like to do for him, would it be as easy as you make it out to be?