Ex Just Had A Baby
My boyfriend's ex just had a baby. We started dating in November, literally a week after it became "official" she called and told him that she was 19 weeks pregnant and that it's his. We need to contact her to get a paternity test done. If it is his, he wants full custody. I don't want to raise another woman's baby (I'm already helping to raise my brother's two kids, whose mother is out of the picture) but I really really love him and want to be with him. He keeps telling me that the baby won't change anything between us, if it's even his, but I'm afraid that I'm going to lose him. Not to the ex, but to my inability to cope with another baby. I want to be with him so bad, but I'm afraid that I won't be able to handle raising her child. I keep trying to rationalize reasons that it might not be his, but it's really not helping any. She got pregnant with him when they were still dating, but she miscarried in the first month. I'm just hoping like crazy that it's not his. I don't want this woman to have his baby.