I Have a Possessive Boyfriend


I don't know how to start this. I am deeply confused right now. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4.5 months. At first, he was really sweet, but then he started to change. He isolates my social life. I am not allowed to contact all of my guy friends. He dislike my friends because my friends influence bad habits to me. He told me not to contact my best gay-friend just because he's afraid that I will fall in love with him. For Christ's sake, my friend's GAY!! How could I possibly fall in love with him? I've known him for 7 years and he is so “female”. Then again, I almost lost my job just because he's jealous of my boss..

He text my guy friend telling him not to contact me again because I already have a boyfriend. And he sent that message as if I am the one who sent it. Another case, a friend of mine called me on my cell. At the same time as I was talking with this guy, my boyfriend, who was sitting next to me screamed telling my guy friend not to disturb me anymore just because I already have a boyfriend. I hung up the phone as soon as he did that.

The thing is he doesn't TRUST me, he always has this negative thinking over me ( everything he thinks of me just leads to negativity, he's too afraid that I will cheat on him ), he always has this freakin' tests for me just to prove that I am not like what he's thinkin', he wants to have me just for him solely! I never had a single thought that I will cheat on him. I just don't know how to show him to make him trust me. I almost broke up with him twice, but he always said that he would change. Yesterday, he told me that if I cheat on him, not only me that he would “chase”, but my family as well.. That sounded like a threat to me.. Truthfully speaking, I am so stressed with this thing and I don't know what to do..



sublimecarole sublimecarole
22-25, F
1 Response Mar 3, 2008

It is mental and verbally abuse. I agree.. I'm glad I'm out from that **** hole... I hope you're doing the same thing.. :)