Before, lots of things were wrong with my boyfriend. Yea, he did this and that, but I needed more. Weren't happy.
Now, I can't come up with anything worthy in him to complain about. He's wonderful.
Did he change? Nope. I did. I mean, my perception.
But you shouldn't try to suck it out of your finger if there's TRULY nothing much to treasure. Persuading yourself doesn't work. It needs a switch in mind. But only if it's worth it.