Need Someone To Talk To....

You are a strong man, I would not be able to handle tht I don't think! my girl friend did that to me and that's exacly what she told me too, "I felt like we were done that's why I started talking to this guy at school and started falling for him" this outraged me because I was working all the time and contemplating her and in the mean time she was falling for some guy that's goin to school to be a hair stylist!! She was a single mom and I also loved her kid, that's why I relate to you in a way. I just had to brake away and I was really hard to walk away but it's for the best I'm still broken but it's slowly dating away.... You are older than me but my friend you have to but really have to let go a soon as possible or all I this will be toxic for you and make you miserable for the rest of your days if you stay.

I know it is easier said than done. Especially when strong emotions and children are involved. But it seems to me that your wife has no intention on remaining faithful. You should walk away.

This is a really heart-breaking situation. I understand that a man's honour lies with a woman. But here, in your current relationship, (sorry to say) you are doomed. If you stay in it, things will get worse for you. I'm amazed that you are still with her. Seriously, you should reconsider your current stand.

This is a really heart-breaking situation. I understand that a man's honour lies with a woman. But here, in your current relationship, (sorry to say) you are doomed. If you stay in it, things will get worse for you. I'm amazed that you are still with her. Seriously, you should reconsider your current stand.

Your a strong man my friend. If I had walked in on that I would have been in jail that night, I would have gotten both pairs of brass knuckles out and beat him and her in the face till you couldnt tell who they were anymore....really would like to use my folded katana but murder would be too much.



Best turn and get out of that situation. Get away from it all, hell I would even try to move out of town cause I couldnt just not want to ruin both of their lives. But seriously its going to be a toxic relationship, thats my advice anyways.

I am not really sure she wants to even tho she says that she does want to make things work. Last night (sat night) she told me she went to a friends house for some time away. She keeps telling me we need a night apart here and there, which is fine, however, I have reason to believe she spent the night with this guy she has been having the affair with. We live in a 3 decker and he did not come home last night either. Also I tried contacting her to ask her where she had put some stuff for the kids as I needed it, and she would not answer her phone, or any text messages. As of this posting (7 am Sunday morn) she still has not come home, nor has he, and still have not heard from her. I am not too familiar with this site, but i would love to chat more if possible.

I have not had this happen to me, but it sounds like a messy situation. Its not fair on you, and i understand you not wanting to push it incase she leaves you, but in the end its not right and she does need to choose, and if she says she feels more for you then, you still have a chance. maybe she is just looking for more spice. try suprising her and taking her out for a nice dinner, dont know your money situation, but if you can suprise her with a gift you now she would like. if there is somewhere special the 2 of you have good memories at take her there. I guess she just needs to be wooed again, shouldn't be too hard to win her back. Also not sure about your sex life, if you need to spice it up aswell. As a said have not been in your situation, but ill listen to you if you ever need to talk. always need a new friend. maybe seek advise from a profesional? xx