Well Today Is The Day Life Lost Its Meaning For Me

my girlfriend broke with me today we dated for 21 months and on momnday they wouldve been 22 i dont know what to do my life was **** before she came. I was bullied in school my dad treated me really bad my mom barely talks to me i dont have any real friends the friends i had they all left to another country. Since she came she helped me with everything she became my best friend she helped me with my problems she was there for me everytime i needed someone she was amazing she was and is the perfecct girl i dont see any meaning to try look for a good side because my life didnt have any good side before she came
lcastro93 lcastro93
18-21, M
4 Responses Sep 7, 2012

Sorry to hear how you feel. Time will pass and you will feel better. Just pray a lot.
Kellyjoyce

Breaking up is hard and I just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday. All seemed great, but then he just stopped communicating. There really was not heads up it was about to happen or that he was unhappy. He said he was busy with work and a family matter, but I found out from mutual friends he was hanging out with other friends and could not spend a few minutes with me. I found out he lied about things were to happened and what had happened. Right now, I feel sad, alone, and a bit angry. I don't know all the details that happened between you and your mate, but I know all will heal in due time. Just relax, focus on making your life happy. Find a meetup group. Find things to do in your area. Get out and keep yourself busy. Enjoy who you are. If you're religious or have some type of faith, pray. It may not be everybody's cup of tea, but it helps me. May all get better and always find the brighter side of life. :)

Thats Life.........

I am sorry for your loss lcastro93.<br />
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You must be really suffering at the minute.<br />
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You say that your life didnt have any good side before she came. So when she came, you poured yourself into her, and now the worst has happened.<br />
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I am so sorry for that =(<br />
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But can you take this time now to look at your life, and figure out what is wrong? Can you identify areas where you can become better - where you can inject some good into your life, without needing anyone else?<br />
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Can you identify any little steps you can take to slowly improve, and become stronger?<br />
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I really hope you can (in fact I believe you can).<br />
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Tackling this issue will help you move on - you will become happier when you are on your own, and this will help you find someone else when you are ready.<br />
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Live your life for yourself. Take control of it and make it as good as you can. You deserve it!