I tried to mend mine. Once I realized that was pointless I lit it on fire and buried it away. It was a waste of time to think it could be fixed. Now I do not feel anything but a desire to die.
So sorry you have to feel the pain. There are so many of us out there who have had our hearts stomped on. The pain will heal in time. Keep your chin up. we will get through this.
I'm really sorry ... I keep thinking I can't break any more, but I do. So ... I guess that means the regenerative power of the heart if amazing. Thinking of you today.
It may seem "unfixable" but I am willing to bet once you are able to pick yourself up and dust your self off you will get your grit back. Its hard to imagine right now as you are so hurt and I truly get that! It seems we give it all we got and that isnt good enough for some . The secret to all that is there will be somone out there ready to put you all back together and offer you what you so rightfully deserve. Try not to become bitter. Not everything is worth while, and some times we don't find that out until we're in the middle of a rotten situation. Good luck!!!
Your words are exactly how I feel.. Im sure your an amazing woman who doesn't at all deserve what happened to you..sometimes life really just isn't fair, that's all there is to it. I'm very sorry your going through such a rough time.. I'm in the same boat:(
We all think that. I know I sure as hell have. Listen, I won't lie the old saying "The past can't be changed, but the future can be." is a crock of bubbling ****. Yes; the past CAN'T BE changed, but what people miss when saying that is, the past CHANGES YOU. It will change you, maybe slightly more jaded, maybe more protected, maybe you see things a little more negative or maybe you just don't trust as easily. Regardless how it changes you,it can and will make you stronger in the end. You can turn the whole painful experience into wisdom that will aid you in the future. You just have to be strong and go at life harder and tougher, that's when all that pain becomes a learning experience and scar tissue. I have no trouble leaving the past in the past, it's the changes it does to me that I carry forever that I can't leave behind, because I can't forget. I am not a zen master I guess, but my advise to you is embrace this feeling and let it turn to experience and wisdom in time. This will prevent the situation from repeating itself.
I totally agree with you. As the months go by, I realized that my painful experiences turned into wisdom...and yes, the PAST did change me..A LOT, but like you said, we all have to strive to embrace the feelings as best as we can, learn from it, and prevent the situation from happening again.
Thank you for commenting. Yeah you have to embrace the old scars and see yourself as a survivor. Too bad emotional scars aren't on the outside, chicks dig them! lol j/k In all seriousness, I wasn't one of those people who never let the past change me much. I respect people who can black it out and strive forward being always positive but I can't. Most people I know who have that kind of positive attitude, and wonder why I am the way I am? Are usually inexperienced people who got lucky with a really great relationship right off the bat and haven't lived much. It makes sense why they seem confused why I see stuff different or why they can't relate to me. I am glad they can't because that would mean I would wish them extreme emotional pain.
Unfortunately, I know this feeling all too well.... :-( I know the feeling of "unfixable". My heart was broken, shattered, then patched, and finally burnt into ashes....
Anything can be fix..Not only you been lie too hurt dump "Whatever"??? Just put on your woman panties, tell yourself "I'm Better Than This"..... I'm a Woman!!!! Too hell with this and go out there and kick some ***....... I know you can do it....
Youre heart will be fixible and youre heart will take time to heal. As i learned in life everytime youre heart gets broken you become a stronger person in life. It is easier said than done and i know that for a fact. And also don't let crap get you down its not worth it. I know exactly how you feel it is not easy but luckily the sun shines every single day and it is a new day. Worth standing up and living youre life to the fullest.
Sorry that you have to suffer. Remember that the sun shines whether you're happy or sad. In a few months the sun will shine brighter for you, even if you can't believe that at the moment.