Ok, so my wife and I have been married almost 20 years. In that time I took her for granted a lot. She just informed me that we are separate now, and that she needs time to decide if she still wants to be married to me. I am heartbroken. I can barely function.
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2 Responses Dec 15, 2012

Well, how did you take her for granted?

Pull yourself up together. She still haven't decided she wants a divorce. She said she still have to decide about it. That means she's still confused. If you want to stay with her, remind her why she fell in love with you in the first place. But don't force yourself on her.