Dear Heartbroken People;

Such a great way of looking at this.

Thanks for the positive outlook!

This is exactly what I am doing right now. Staying single and working on myself. Although sometimes its hard, but I think between work, taking workshops and classes here and there, I started to love being alone again.

I can only hope what the future holds for me and still try to keep going.

Thank-you for your wonderful post. <3

A good reminder for myself :)

I love your true and refreshing outlook. Thank you!

This is very nice. I am doing exactly what you said. After four wrong guys who all hurt me in different ways, I finally decided to stay alone. Focus on my education and career, and after I am alright with myself. then ill try to get back out there.

U should read my story too :(
I also deeply truely loved an old man

I think this is an amazing story.

Thanks so much for this

it was nice reading this...you have a way with words :)

Hey Buddy that's a good read !
A great book on picking a good relationship person is called " Safe People "
by Dr'.s Henry Cloud & John Townsend
You can learn about all of the red flags in people so as to know who to say yes and no to.

very wise words!

i guess i can relate to this....

So well written. Thanks for sharing - something we all need to be reminded of from time to time.

Great inspiration for those who have been involved in deceit. Very cool of you to share this with the forum :)

i know them all.and avoid bumping in to the same loser again.he is the same guy.dont forget tat.

It is great being a girl. You just have to go out and advertise a little and someone will bite eventually. Sadly as a man, while I sit at the bar alone. I do not appear as anything more than a loser, creep, target. However, it is a wonderful story for all those hot lonely girls.

wow...nicely done...from a single mom....thanks.

You seem to have your ducks in a row...I like the part about dont be afraid of being alone,so important cause some peeps are together out of lonelyness and its not so good ya know

I have just had my heartbroken. A man I changed my whole life for said I no longer make him happy. We got married just a short year and a half ago and I put my whole heart into our marriage and he did very little. I can't understand how someone can be that way. He was raising my daughter with me and said he'd always be there. But when it got to hard he up and bailed. No warning just one day said hey im done. On new years, when my aunt had died, when my daughter was horrible ill and I needed him im angry, and confused and I feel so dumb for having believed his lies, for sacrificing all for a man who couldn't give me the time of day... im done with love, I don't trust it. It has only gotten me hurt...