Were They Empathetic?
When someone breaks up with you and you get hit between the eyes, never saw it coming, do you think the other person is empathetic? I learned by thinking about how the last year and a half was with my boyfriend and I, and all the red flags I ignored. How he treated his family and coworkers was a true sign of how little patience he had. It was all about him and what he wanted, never put himself in someone else's shoes. Selfish. I certainly know one of the things I will look for in my next person. EMPATHY.