Shall I Send This To His Wife?I have been fooling around by a man in the last two months with continuous liars, eventually I decided to leave him and move on, last time I compose the mail below, shall I tell his wife the truth? I decide to give myself 3 days to think, as the letter below will cause a huge hurt to the other lady,seriously not sure if the wife should know or not.
Sorry for writing to you like this, especially deeply and sincerely apologies for having been involving your marriage "unknowingly".
I knew Daniel in the tennis court over 2 months ago, during the first month I thought I had met the sweetest and caring man on this world. Knowing me as a tennis enthusiasm, he would book the court to practice with me, make my training plan and give me tips. He would come to my office just to see me and have lunch together. Especially he sent me about 7500 loving and caring text messages within 2 months. I asked him why sweet man like him was still available, he said he was engaged to an English/French lady last year and finally split up in May. I asked why he couldn't bring me to his place or spend evenings together, he said that Dad was around and he need to take care of him as he just had a heart operation. I googled his name and asked him who is Jing Jing (I saw the pictures you took in New York in March), he said that was a random girl met in the art event.
Until one month ago, I was asked by other tennis pla
I decide to move on and seek for my new happiness as I feel ashamed of had been involved in this relationship and could not stay with someone lack of loyalty, integrity, ethics and self-control. But I also had been debating for quite a while whether I should let you know, especially I had been on your side of story 8 years ago -- had been with a man constantly having affairs here and there, I wish people could have told me early and woken me up from the "fairy tale" he gave to me, then I could decide what I want for life. I apologies for having crashed into your world in such a way, though I had been trying to make sure I was not with an attached man, things still happened. I also apologize for the pain and outcome this letter might bring to you, but we both are Chinese girls living abroad alone, all I want to say is "be strong, be selfish and take care of yourself".
with my sincere apologizes and best wishes,
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