Condoms Found

Ive been in a relationship for 6yrs engaged for 5yrs..he started acting strange out of no where..had the car n found the condoms under the seat asked him n the classic answer was my friend had my car...please help im ready to leave is the relat ionship worth saving im sooooo hurt
bunee1070 bunee1070
2 Responses Dec 15, 2012

Get a private investigator, proof pictures,before he denies it

I'm so sorry you have to deal with this painful situation. Can you remember if he ever did, in fact, let his friend borrow the car? If not, it is, sadly, likely he is having an affair. If this is the case, ask yourself this: can I ever trust him again? For example, if you can see yourself and your husband getting past this in the future, him leaving this girlfriend, and you will be able to completely trust him and put the situation in the past, the I would say the relationship is worth fighting for. If you think that you will never be able to look at him or think of him the same way again, and will always be nervous about him sleeping with another woman, then it is probably best to end the marriage, for your own personal health. I'm very sorry this happened to you, and I hope everything resolves itself in your favor. Best of luck.