By: An EP User
Written on January 31st, 2013
I gave you all the short version in my earlier post "is texting cheating". Well I've been playing detective the last two weeks. I've printed a copy of all the numbers my husband has texted and has received. I've managed to find some deleted text (but only shows about the first eight words of the text). My husband flipped out screaming at me that the printout was not right and he didn't delete texts he only deleted her old phone number and replaced it with her new number. Still says he not cheating...should I believe him? Why do I have to prove he is lying? Why can't he prove to me he's not (if he's not). Should I believe my husband.........the husband who bought a motorcycle and hid it from me.......the husband that cheated on me while we were dating......the husband that maxed out a credit card with cash advances that he told me was cancelled (then hide the statement in the lining of his jacket)........the husband that put us in debt 20,000 because it took me eight months to find out he was having a gambling problem........the husband that is suppose to be at work is sitting in a bar all day. I know you are all thinking yourself what is wrong with this lady and why is she still with this guy? Really I don't know. Maybe it because I've loved him with all my heart since our first date or maybe it's because the whole "love him in good times and in bad" or maybe it's because am almost fifty years old and I don't want our twenty years together to be waste. I do everything for him and my son, my entire life is devoted to them. He's still sticking to his story that he has not been cheating. Should i believe him? Should we try and work it out if he truly didn't sleep with these women? The last two weeks have been filled with screaming and tears (try to do this when my son is not around) still don't know what to do. My husband wants us to go for marriage therapy. I would really like to hear from all of you who read my story. Signed confused and broken hearted.