The Problem With Husbands #1One thing that most husbands (and significant others) fail to realize is that the person you fell in love with, the person you said you were committed forever to... IS the only person you're allowed to be with. It's common sense that there are millions of people out there that are compatible with millions of other people... when you commit to someone, you are saying to yourself: "out of every single person on this planet, I choose you." Now, what most people (mostly men) fail to do is tell themselves that when they make that commitment in front of God and everyone else.
A lot of husbands give up easy because they are selfish and feel entitled. This really has to do with someone's personality, influences, and upbringing. Both people in the relationship have to be grounded and rational. If either person isn't that way in their normal life, the relationship is going to be a lot harder. Relationships are filled with tons of compromise.
Now, one big problem is sex in a relationship. Men are naturally wired to think, feel, and want sex all the time. Women, most, no so much. I'm not saying women don't feel that way, it's just that men are chemically engineered to feel that way. It takes a lot of willpower to over come those feelings. Just being horny will cause a guy to think unfaithfully. So, you can see how a man having little willpower can cause things to go wrong.
The problem with a lot of husbands is... they don't know what they're getting into. They don't realize that they are now responsible for two people (or more). They don't realize that they can no longer make selfish decisions. They also don't know how to be a man and stay strong for their family.
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