I have been with my husband for 5 yrs. But married for 4 yrs. in October. We have 2 beautiful girls together. But on July 14th my husband came home to me at 7:30 a.m. in the morning and told me that he had been thinking for awhile that maybe we should seperate. I asked him why? His response was, well I just think that your unhappy, and I don't want to stay with you, if all I do is make you unhappy. I told him that I was not unhappy with anything, and where was this coming from. He said that it seemed to him as if I had been unhappy for some months now. I burst into tears wondering why is this happening, and is this really happening. Well, he had been going to the pool hall that same day, came home and went to work. But the next day he said that he was leaving at 4p.m. and going to the pool hall. I found that very awkward. Well I knew that soemthing was wrong. I had a very gut renching feeling that he was cheatign on me. Well I called him on his lunch break which was at 2 a.m. I called him at 2:20 to 2:40 a.m. I called for 20 min.s straight with no response. Finally he picked up the phone, then he said to me: Stop F***ing calling me before you get me into trouble by my boss. He was lieing to me and I knew. It was very quiet and where he works is very noisey. But he has always picked up his phone, But I knew that night when he talked to me that he had done something that would tare me apart! The next day after he came hoe from work and went to sleep, I looked through his phone and found a number I hadn't seen before, and I also found txt messages. I called the number and it was a girl. I asked her why she had my husbands phone number. She said i dont know. I asked her why she is talking to my husband she said I don't know him. then she hung up on me. I went into the room and yelled at the top of my lungs and asked himwho she was and what did they do. He said nothing. I ran into the living room and screamed and cried. I said to myself. Why? why? why? why? what did I do to deserve this? He came and held me and said that I didn't do anything. I yelled at him and said don't touch me! I asked what had happened. He said that they had only kissed. I asked him again he said the same thing again. But later on that I asked him around 5p.m. He said that they had sex. The pain that I feel is the worst the pain in the world that anyone can feel. It is worse than having a loved one die. I have never felt such terrible pain all at once with such a mix of emotions that are unexplainable. I have dropped the subject to him, but I cannot ever forget what he has done to me.