Had No Idea....how Stupid Am I

I have been married for almost 13 years and have been with my husband for almost 19 years....Wow that seems like forever....I found out last Thursday night around midnight that he was seeing someone else.  I caught him "texting" her.  The messages to one and another would turn your stomach.  I asked him if he cared to explain, He said, "NO".  He just got up and got dressed and called his MOTHER to come and pick him up.  There were no vehicles here at the time.  She came, No questions asked.  This was around 2am. 

I did not hear from him until noon.  By noon he had already quit his job, changed his address, stopped his direct deposit for his last paycheck, and been to see a lawyer.  He then told me he wanted a divorce.  He was a busy guy.  By the way, he took his mother with him to do all of these things.

We have always been happy together.  We fought very little, enjoyed each others company....Or so I thought.  I was totally blindsided.

Now the good part....He graduated with her, and she is also married.  Her husband and my husband have been great friends their whole lives.  My husband and I do not have any children, but she has 2. 

He just kept telling me that he deserved to be #1.  We always treated each other very well.  I don't know what that meant.  I think it was just a defense mechanism or something. 

So, in one week...I went from a happily married woman to finding out that I had a cheating husband.  He has already filed for divorce. 

On Monday morning, she had moved her and her children out of their home, and back to our little town.  She enrolled them in school, and was applying for jobs. 

What a whirlwind....

betrayed2010 betrayed2010
31-35, F
Feb 26, 2010