I was a single mom at 21 and did not marry until my son was three. This guy was everything to me and we had a great relationship. Then secrets and things started apearing. It seems like someone elses life now that I look back on it. My son ended up being abused, we went to childrens services but he did not want the only father he had ever known to get into trouble. I had two girls together and when I was six months pregnant with our youngest he was arrested and charged with molesting his sisters eight year old daughter. I was devestated and left with my kids. We have been on our own since then and I have full legal custody. My ex husband ended up geting three months in jail and only served half that time. Every woman he has dated since then has had kids but I moved to Canada to get away from him so we will never have to worry about him bothering us again. Now I wonder if my son needs treatment because he is starting to act out. It would be helpful to have some suggestions from those you know what I have been through. I know it is just hard to be a single mom but this adds to it.