I have a crush on a 'friend'. I get constant mixed messages from him and I need to know what's going on. Asking him is not an option so please don't suggest it. I found out he watched me undress,(unbeknownst to me) he flirts like a little kid throws things at me etc. then on the opposite end of the spectrum he is constantly stating how disgusting fat girls are ( I am a very big girl) and shows me pictures of hot girls he has hooked up with. Please be honest. I want to know if I'm reading into something that is not there
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3 Responses Aug 20, 2014


He is not worth it. Does he really think big girls are ugly? What world does he live in?

If he is insulting big girls, it seems like it is not the case that he likes you in the way that it seems you might wish he did; on the other hand, lol, perhaps his constant objection to big girls is a case of "protesting too much," - i.e., that's what he really wants.