How can I ever make myself talk to him if I'm so scared? I've already waited so long into the semester to talk to him because its more ethical to me to try something after all my grades are in so he can't be accused of anything..
I don't know a whole lot about him and i'm thinking about asking him to join me for coffee to discuss graduate school..
I'm not a shy person but I feel so shy but totally on his mental level around him.
thegraduatetx thegraduatetx
22-25, F
2 Responses Dec 4, 2012

In my country a professor or lecturer in university wouldn't go for a coffee with a student. Set your goal lower for the beginning! You could talk about your ambitions first and then you can see how it develops.

I think you should just ask him for coffee. It's an easy way to get to talk to him and find out more about him and it's fairly low risk. You'll regret it later if you don't take a chance.