Crush On Colleague
I developed a major crush on a new colleague last year. We are both 50 years old and married. It happened quite unexpectedly when I kept bumping into him and he was in my line of vision too many times. I was immediately attracted to him even though we never spoke. He was athletic, does his work responsibly. I have admired other men before but this time I thought he was attracted to me because there were just too many times when I saw him looking at me. Yet he always avoided eye contact. To cut it short, I am bothered that I can't get him out of my mind. These days we kind of deliberately avoid each other. None of my colleagues know of this. I feel so stupid going through all this at this age. What shd I do?