I Can't Get Her Out Of My Head!
I have been down this road before. A very sexy woman that I work with gets me curious. I talk to her and get to know her a bit. But, before long I realize that there is nothing there and move on. This time is different. I get that awkward teenager feeling around her and I'm hopelessly confused on what to think of her. I'm not able to shut down my feelings based on cold, hard logic like in the past. There are a lot of things that tell me this could never work... Up until yesterday she was engaged. She broke up with him because "She wants more freedom." I am 7 years older and I have three kids. This in itself is proving to be a huge hurdle that no woman so far seems interested in trying for. A 22 year old that is still learning what she wants would have to be a saint to take on something like that. Is it fair for me to ask her to try it? I know I can make a woman happy. My wife and I had a great relationship until her death nearly 2 years ago. She is very flirty and has several guys at work wrapped around her little finger. This bothers me in that I can't tell where her true feelings lie in me or someone like me. I also know that - most of the time - people go to work simply to work.
Since I just found out that she's single a few hours ago I will probably not get any sleep tonight trying to figure out what my next move (or whether I should even make one) will be. I'm hopelessly confused and would love some advice.