I don't know if it's a daddy complex, since all the complex' I've heard of is people lacking a father figure growing up. I've always known my dad, and we have always been really tight, I have always been a "Daddy's Girl" - but not in any sexual way, I would just always go to him with every problem I've had, always relied on his opinion.
Even now, at 19, I still call him when ever I need help with something. Like I can't do anything unless he've said "ok" for it.
I'm not sexually attracted to my dad, but I can't get the thought of living as someones little girl out of my head. I'm not even into guy with beard, and it feels wrong thinking about being with someone more that 5 years older than me.
At the same time people always tell me to stop relying on my dad and take care of myself, but I just can't figure out how to do it. It feels normal for me to rely on my dad this much, and I can't find it in me to change when it doesn't feel worng.
leejoonnieoppa leejoonnieoppa
22-25, F
2 Responses Aug 21, 2014

Your affection to him is like a fate he to friend stage so is okay

It's not really about sexual attraction to your father, and it's not necessarily about having lacked a father figure in your life. It's often very much about recreating the warmth and safety of the relationship with your Dad - where you're so well cared for and all your problems are dealt with.

There's nothing wrong with how you feel. Just go with it :)

Thanks :)

welcome :)