Smoochie(Gosh, I hate trying to come up with a semi-intelligent title! This is my eldest daughter's nickname.)
I have always had the feeling that I would never have a boy, but only daughters.
Nevertheless, for some reason in my first pregnancy I convinced myself I was having a son. Perhaps because it seemed so improbable. No, I did not find out ahead of time.
My baby was delivered via c-section. The staff knew my baby would be a surprise. I heard "There he is!" and got happy that I'd had a boy. That was followed momentarily by a wailing baby and the announcement "It's a GIRL!" (Coincidentally, they did darn near the exact same thing in my second c-section; first using the pronoun "he" and then saying I'd had a girl.)
I guess my initial thought that I'd never have a boy was the right one. I have followed that daughter with two more.
BellaLinda 26-30, F 0 Oct 10, 2006