My Story.My son's father use to be a pretty good guy. I'm Kara and I'm 18 yrs old.
Josh was pretty much my high school sweetheart, only he wasn't always a sweetheart. During highschool my parents weren't very strict as long as I went to school and had my own money for the things I wanted they pretty much left me be, I on the other hand wish they would have been a little more involved because I was staying with my boyfriend, having unprotected sex, and hanging out with people I probably had no business being around at the time. Josh was a bad influence altogether. But you know how we've allll had our guy that was no good for us right ladies?
Josh would leave me at home to go with his friends, lie about dating me. everything all together. but he'd always come back, they always come back girls.
Anyway so things started getting good with our relationship and we had been together for three years, we started talking about marriage and having a baby, mind you I was still in highschool close to graduation but still in highschool, at that time josh had dropped out, no dipolma living with his grandma and his sister.
so we did. we had a baby. I can still remember the day I told him I was pregnant, he was so excited. To make a long story short we got our own house, moved out, he stopped partying, and we were happy. After having Oakley i don't know if he got scared or what really went wrong.. but we started fighting more and more and more. We broke up... It was the worse pain I have ever went through in my entire life. It's been a year and he's constantly trying to come back and forth in and out of our lives.
He doesn't just call to ask about Oakley or just want to see Oakley, He always makes it about us both. I love him soooooo much, that kind of love just never goes away you know?
But he's facing charges for breaking into someone's house and almost killing them, partys every single weekend, longs for any fight he can be a part of, and has sex with anything that moves.. on top of everything, his relationship with a member of his family is something I can't handle, it's beyond where it should be.
For the past couple of months he's been saying is I drop the child support he will glady sign rights to our son over, if I promise that we will never ever speak or see him again.
I don't want to make a mistake here, but I'm trying to move on with my life and give my son someone who actually speaks to him and gives him the time of day, josh doesnt.
I have a great boyfriend, who is fighting for our country actually, and I don't want to hurt him in any way. He hasnt met Oakley but when he's back from deployment that's first on his list of things to do. he's ready to pick up where an idoit left off.
what should i do?