DeadBeat For Life !!!!

Ok, Me and my baby daddy meet in 11 grade high school. We for 2 and a half years during this time he cheated on me over 20 times. I was stupid and in love so i forgave him. He started hitting me and treating me like ****. Everyday we would argue cause all he wanted to do was smoke weed. When i went to college he did trust me he always thought i was cheating! I NEVER cheated on this boy in my life. He said that i have an attitude problem so we broke up. Obviously if someone is being physically and emotionally abused they are going to have an attitude. I did so many things for him when we were together. I helped him financially and emotionally!! How easily they forget the good that women do for them. I found out i was pregnant after we broke up. He told me to have an abortion! I was so upset !! Then he says he wants me to keep the baby. I did what i wanted to do! i kept my baby! I am currently 4 mths pregnant and in school and not working. I get no help from my family. Im struggling to make doctor payments and having a hard time keeping up with the bills. He make $600 per week and lives with his family and has no financial obligation and he refuses to pay for any doctor bill or do anything. I hate him and i wish that he would just get some sense and do whats right.


rhondap rhondap 18-21 1 Response Jul 29, 2008

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You my friend need a job. You don't need him. Don't worry about his money. Money is something you just go work for. You and your baby will be just fine. Be independent. File a child support case against him. And stay away from him. Better yet get a restraining order (order of protection) that includes child support. Then simply file a copy of it with the Division of support services.

Its awful what you've been through but life doesn't stop here. Change your life for the better that means minus him. Best Wishes~!