Everyone I Know Disagrees..

My definition of cheating is if you look at another naked person, as in ****. If you talk to another person sexually or suggestively. If you have feelings for someone else.

Many people think that i am ridiculous for even thinking this and thinking that someone else will ever agree wit hme and love me for it.

The thing is im not stupid.

I tell the person before we are dating how i feel on this issue. I explain to them. If they dont agree okay well thats fine we can still be friends but i cant change my views or feelings. Period. And if they agree arent the saying that its okay. I think so.

SO if they agree adn then they do it then its cheating.

I think thats reasonable

Its like.. When people say "Just because ive ordered doesnt mean i cant look at the menu"

Imagine walking into a restaurant and seeing someone eating their meal while looking at the menu? lol How stupid is that! :)

Anyways, point is, if you think something is cheating you should tell the person that you are with what you believe it is, so they know. You both need to agree to each others idea, or else it just wont work.