He's Getting Better, But I'm Getting Worse....I have a depressed boyfriend. He used to be really bad and never wanted to leave the house. Now he is feeling much better and will actually go out with me and socialize. I am a pretty social person. I consider myself to be very slightly depressed but but not severely, it's nothing i want to go on medication for I just think I'm not a very happy person by nature but I still find ways to enjoy life and have fun. Some days it's worse than others, some days I feel fine.
So anyway, he's been getting way better but it's still really hard to deal with, he likes to sit around and watch tv all day and i'm getting into that routine too. he gets really jealous for no reason and causes scenes at parties cuz he thinks other guys are hitting on me or i'm flirting with people but i'm not i just like to meet people!!! But as i said he has been improving on that, i just hate that he drives people away from me.
All my friends say I should leave him cuz it's bringing me down but i just don't know if he could get through this on his own, he's been hurt a lot in the past and i don't want to add to the list. I also do really care about him and i have a lot of love for him, and he's a really nice guy.
also i think part of the reason i put up with it is that dealing with his issues help me not have to focus on my issues. Any advice or thoughts would be really appreciated.
purple613 18-21, F 1 Response 0 Feb 21, 2011