I Have A Depressed Boyfriend

I have a depressed boyfriend..
i love he so much...
& i dont mind that...
it can happened to any one...
i just dont know what to do!
amy143 amy143
26-30, F
2 Responses Jan 24, 2012

Be there for him when you can and take time for yourself when you can't. Is he mean when he's depressed or just down on himself? It can make a difference when it comes to dealing with it. My bf is also depressed and his comes out as anger and he tends to take that out on me. If that's the case with you, I would say to be there when he needs you, and try to back off when he's being difficult.

naaaa he never take it out on me!!!
he either avoid me or he just stay quiet!
any way,, do not let ur bf do that!!! EVER!
u can help him,,cheer him up,,share his problems,,try to solve it too.
but never let him let it out on u!
1st coz this will be an easy solution for him!
2nd coz u dont have to suck out his anger,,let him find another thing,,hobby,,viedo game,,etc.
u dont have to carry others sadness! by time that will make u a sad person too!
wish u good luck :)

Yeah, I'm working on trying to set limits or just getting rid of him all together. Well, by working on, I mean thinking about. I've got nothing so far.

I'm sorry. Be there for him, but take care of yourself first. I love my boyfriend very much, but I know my limits.