Well, my situation is rather long and complicated. I am in a relationship with a man that I met 7 years ago but didn't last at that time because he joined the military and long distance love did not work out at 18 yrs old. Fast forward 7 yrs, we reconnected thru FB, I was super happy to know about him. At that time I was getting separated from my husband for domestic violence. Seeing him was just so awesome but I didn't have any expectation of being together. Anyways after a few weeks of hanging out and talking, we decided to retake the relationship. With time, he fold me he suffers from depression. He is been to Iraq, his ex cheated on him while he was there and she had an abortion and blamed it on him. All these happened 4 years ago or so. Still today, he deals with feeling of guilty and still gets depressed over his ex cheating on him. He says that it was all part of the experience of being in Iraq. I don't know what to think or deal with he fact that he gets sad over his ex. Does he still have feelings for her? I wonder over and over. Please some advise!!